Book Club Discussion Questions
Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
- Iceland routinely ranks as one of "the best places in the world
to be a woman." Where would you expect your own country to
rank, and why? What differences and similarities stood out to you
between Icelandic culture and your own?
- What was the most surprising thing you learned about Icelandic
culture?
- Which of the interviewees did you find most relatable? Why did
that person resonate with you?
- Reid emphasizes that even Iceland is not perfect when it comes to
gender equality. What would perfect gender equality look like to
you? Do you have different ideas about it now than you did when
you started reading?
- Iceland provides generous parental leave for both men and women,
and all citizens have access to health care. How do these assurances
affect the decisions Icelandic parents make? Would such programs
change your view toward having children one way or another?
- Which of the featured sprakkar— from Hallgerdur Long-Legs to
President Vigdís Finnbogadóttir— were your favorites? How did
their stories change your understanding of the rest of the book?
- Describe the role of saumós in Icelandic society. How does the
advance of gender parity affect these gender- segregated spaces?
Do you have a group that you consider your saumó?
- Many cultures around the world are considering how to
incorporate the names of new technologies into their languages.
What are the benefits of developing a new word in one's native
language as opposed to adopting a name from another? What else
do Icelanders do to preserve their culture in the modern day?
- When it comes to the comfort and safety of LGBTQIA+ people
in Iceland, queer activist Eva Maria asserts, "People come here
because society is so accepting, not just because the legislation
exists." How can we foster an inclusive environment in our
communities with and without legislative support?
- In discussing compliance with mandated gender ratios for board
members, entrepreneur Ragnhildur says, "Things are still moving
too slowly." How do we speed up the tides of change?
- Rose's story highlights some of the hidden pitfalls of "equitable"
custody arrangements. What changes would you make to ensure
that joint custody arrangements are safe for survivors of domestic
abuse and their children?
- According to Reid, Iceland's size is one of the factors that enables
comparatively rapid changes to its social policies. What lessons
can larger countries learn from Iceland's activists and policy
makers? What lessons stood out to you personally?
- As someone who found herself unexpectedly in the spotlight,
Reid has tried to make the best of her platform. If you were in
her shoes, what would you try to accomplish with your platform?
How would you contend with the scrutiny from the media?
- What are some ways you can get involved in your local community
to promote gender equality? What can you encourage your
government to do?
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