There are many things with which I identify in Quindlen's musings about family, girlfriends, relationships, control, solitude, loss. Some observations are humorous...attributing Kevin Bacon, the good news is that the eyes and the face go at the same time so you can't see
…more how you look. Others more pithy...old is where you haven't gotten yet.
Everyone has a perspective on aging, but I can't help wondering what Quindlen's (not quite 60) will be when she's 75. (less)