(9/5/2015)
"The Things We keep" I believe will be helpful for people who have family and loved ones with dementia related disease, and maybe don't know a lot about this terrible disease that affects millions of people in the US alone.
That the 2 main characters are in their '30's is highly unusual as most with Alzheimer's are over 65 (a small percentage are in their 40's and 50's). What is true however, is that love sustains. Family members need to be advocates as with any disease, and do their research. As in the book, aides, helpers, anyone working in the facilities that the patients are living need to be aware of how much love and tenderness the patient needs. In the case of Eva- the cook and housekeeper, untrained but with an innate sense, understood the need for the residents for friendship and love, as loneliness and trauma may affect the patient.
A quick read, with some good information and real life situations that happen in these facilities, I would recommend that families who need help with your loved ones contact the Alzheimer Association at their 800# , 24 hours a day, every day, for any questions you may have. They are a great resource for everything regarding this disease.