The Sunset Route: Freight Trains, Forgiveness, and Freedom on the Rails in the American West
by Carrot Quinn
Against all odds (7/28/2021)
Carrot Quinn writes from her experiences growing up in Alaska with a mentally ill mother and an absentee father. Her childhood is marred by hunger, abuse and deprivation that is gut wrenching, but she recalls these events as a kind of flashback while telling the tales of her wanderings across the country by hitch hiking and riding the rails. Her search for love and acceptance are never quite fulfilled, but she comes to find a place in the world where she can exist.
I cannot say this story is uplifting or entertaining, but it is a look into a segment of our society that struggles daily with survival. Children can be amazingly resilient and Carrot manages to survive the neglect and challenges of a totally dysfunctional family.
A Place for Us
by Fatima Farheen Mirza
Love lost and life found (4/10/2018)
This book, "A Place for Us" is very multi-layered. There is the story of a Muslim Indian family finding their way in the US and American culture. They are an integral part of a closed community that the father helps to maintain customs and traditions. I learned a tremendous amount of insight into Muslim customs and family life, but I also saw how divisive it can be trying to maintain a closed society in the midst of 21st century USA. According to your perspective the first generation born here becomes either a bridge to a different world or an ax dividing families and communities.
Another aspect of this book that is so well written is the family dynamics. How the siblings link together to protect and advance their own causes and wishes. How the father cannot overcome the his own childhood trauma and background. How the mother tries to maintain control of her children so the father can be at ease, but realizes at the end the irreversible damage she has caused.
I loved this book and its characters, especially Amar and his mother, Layla. The author provides so many insightful anecdotes into their relationship that you are holding your breath when the final confrontation occurs. This book would be an excellent book club choice as it wrestles with cultural clashes, family dynamics and individual choices.
Manderley Forever
by Tatiana de Rosnay
Remembering Daphne (1/9/2017)
I thoroughly enjoyed Rosnay's biography of Daphne Du Maurier, one of my favorite authors when I was younger. I knew nothing about Du Maurier's family of her life story and found this account fascinating, especially her love of houses. This recurring theme provides a look behind the writing style of Du Maurier's most recongnizable novels with their historical settings and detailed, emotional descriptions of the homes where all of the starring characters are located.
It was also quite engaging to read about Du Maurier's passionate, but on again, off again relationships with women and men. Rosnay hints at a bisexual orientation that would have been scandalous in the English caste society, but Du Maurier's ambivalent nature travelled between sophisticated Parisian culture and the Cornwall coast with reluctant sojournes in London. She is pictured as living as self-centered, indulgent life that revolved around her need for freedom in movement, nature and intellectual pursuits. A very good read for a frosty, wintery day.
Three Many Cooks: One Mom, Two Daughters: Their Shared Stories of Food, Faith & Family
by Pam Anderson, Maggy Keet & Sharon Damelio
Four Stars for Cooks and Recipes (2/9/2015)
I thoroughly enjoyed this combo of essays and recipes. The storytelling is intimate, life giving and always returns to the food on the table. Pam and her daughters, Sharon and Maggy, share much more than their love affair with cooking. They also shed light on their family relationships and how the creation of good food connected them to each other and their spouses.
I also love the recipes that are included because the comments read like your mother is standing in the kitchen with you. The "Cheese Drawer Mac and Cheese" has become my newest, favorite version of baked macaroni and cheese.
An easy and comforting read for a winter's afternoon that inspired and gave me numerous smiles at the trials and tribulations of raising two daughters through adulthood and marriage.
Song of the Spirits: In the Land of the Long White Cloud saga
by Sarah Lark
A Tale of Two Cultures (8/14/2013)
The location of New Zealand for "Song of the Spirits" is precipitous. This is a country with a glorious landscape that evokes a primal spirituality is most people who visit there. I was disappointed at the author's decision to not describe the scenery of New Zealand and its Maori culture more fully in an attempt to evoke the spirits.
Instead she concentrated on their human story and their relationships to animals as the doorway into their spirit. The twists and turns in the plot as it follows the two young women and their quest for independence and adulthood is fascinating. There is no condemnation at the recklessness of young love or the abandonment of a child because there is an extended family that wraps itself around these women and 'cleans up their mess'.
It was the story line that kept me engaged through 600 some pages. I think the translation is a bit clumsy in some places and I longed for a mental transportation to New Zealand, a gorgeous country that I have been fortunate to have visited.