(2/15/2017)
This is the first Lauren Grodstein book I have read & I have mixed feelings about it.
The premise of the book had potential. Single Mom, dying of cancer, who decides to write a memoir of her life for her now 6 year old son to read when he turns 18 & she is gone.
It was the way the author included the memoir that I had trouble with because I couldn't understand why she thought her son would care about most of it. For instance, why would he need to know every detail about her political meetings (her candidate's extramarital affairs!) or her medical treatments ("the nurse came in a little while ago to take my blood pressure. It's a little high, she said. You feeling okay?). I also could not understand why she felt the need to include the constant profanity & the asides, "Jake, you don't have to read this or you can skip over this part if it makes you uncomfortable."
I know her protagonist is in a nightmarish position experiencing complex feelings but her memoir to her son is superfluous. It was a missed opportunity to edit out all of that detail & give him insight into her philosophy, her beliefs, her morals, her priorities, & yes, her feelings about him, her diagnosis, her regrets, her dreams for him, in a more mature & less self-serving manner.
I think this book would work better as a story about a single Mom dying of cancer dealing with the emotions of her end of life days, her career, & her 6 year old son, period. The inclusion of the memoir was a good idea but for me, its execution was unsuccessful.
Her writing style, informal & casual as though she was talking to her sister or a good friend, appealed to me. I felt her characters were well developed & believable (even if you didn't like them). Although, I think this book is contrived & predictable, I also feel the moral ambiguities would lend itself to a very lively & interesting book club discussion.