(10/18/2019)
I had a hard time, at first, with this book; but settled into it once I realized that the episode with the dead whale (which bookends the story) is a seminal event in the narrator's life, but is in the somewhat distant past. So much of the rest of the book jumps around in the past, in no chronological order, that it is a bit disconcerting; but very much like how most of us think of our lives. The narrator is raised by a substance-abusing, but mostly loving father while an errant, but mostly loving mother flits in and out of her life. And as do so many of the other people in her life, leaving her not trusting them or herself. So I guess this is a book about coming to terms with oneself, separate from those around us, and believing in love, really. It is well-written and one cares about the people, in spite of their failings.