(2/21/2022)
Lisa Hsiao Chen's first novel, "Activities of Daily Living," presents two projects. The first project, about Tehching Hsieh (The Artist), a New York-based performance artist who undertakes year-long projects (but art?) whom the main character, Alice, researches for a project with no seeming end. The second project is about caring for Alice's step-father (the Father), who descends into dementia with a definite ending. What ties the two projects together is the concept of time and how it is perceived by The Artist, the Father and Alice herself. Living a bi-coastal life between Alice's Brooklyn home and the Father's residence in the Bay Area from his home, to skilled nursing facilities to memory care units, the concept of time for Alice and the Father take on a devastating, thankless journey when the brain can no longer count on neurotransmitters, clocks and lacking the ability to undertake activities of daily living (ADLs), known as dressing, personal hygiene, toileting and remembering, demarcating the depths of dementia.
The Artist project is done at a distance although many opportunities presented themselves for Alice to speak with Hsieh, she demurs. The Father project is a deep-dive sort where love and closeness are a marked contrast to Alice's distance from The Artist. Then, there are all the other "ouvres" introduced in the novel providing dimension (albeit distracting!) with references to art and literature, however disjointed they seem. I am sure the "dots connected" for the author, but not for this reader. What did connect, however, is the pain of losing a loved one to the black hole of dementia and "the long goodbye". The novel is worth a read, slowly, re-reading chapters (get a highlighter) to ponder time and ADLs in your own life and others' conception of time, with whom you are close or from whom you are distant.