I was intrigued by the author's mercurial father, the renowned drama critic, Richard Gilman. But as the book progressed, I became increasingly frustrated by the severe co-dependency suffered by the two. Unfortunately, that issue was never resolved, so I failed to understand
…more why she even wrote this. While there were references to her treatment by a psychiatrist, it became clear that her need for unhealthy relationships proceeded from her father to her husband, her sons and finally to her mother. I expected some enlightenment, some progress towards good mental health but there was none. If you want to read a case study of the harm of co-dependency, read this. I did not enjoy it at all. P.S. And lose the overused adjectives! (less)