(1/31/2024)
This is a book that is not an easy read, but it is a very worthwhile one! It is beautifully written, strangely addictive and incredibly intense. This intensity though is what keeps you interested and sometimes on your seat as the story of three generations of women who either live or grew up on an island surrounded by a community that loves, fears and is strangely ambivalent about them unfolds. Hermine "Herself" Zook is the matriarch of a family of three daughters (Primrose (who lives in California and practices law),
Molly (who is a nurse in the community) and Rose Thorn (who is beautiful, lazy and struggles to understand herself)) and granddaughter, Dorothy "Donkey," a precocious 11-year-old when we meet her. Herself is a healer and maker of herbal potions craved by the women (and men who are not quite as open about this) but at the same time the legends, lore and suspicion that surrounds Herself makes her fearsome and strange. Herself married Wild Will Zook but she kicked him out at one point after he built her a big house off the island. The mysteries surrounding Wild Will and the origins of Donkey underpin the story as does the winsome but toxic love between Titus Clay, Jr. and Rose Thorn, which to the community represents a kind of fairy tale, perfect love that seems to inspire the community, resonate within the story line.
Donkey plays a pivotal role as she is the linchpin between Herself, Rose Thorn and Titus. There are many moments that are funny, compelling, but triumphant too. But, it is nature and the love of nature and animals (the two donkey Astrid and Triumph, the cow, Deliah, Ozma, the pet dog, and the Massasauga rattlesnake Donkey believes is her "sister") that underlie the telling of the story of these strong, compelling women. Moreover, this is a book about relationships: man to nature, woman to man, siblings to parents, friends to family, community to the world.
There is so much about the nature of the story - secrets, truths that must be exposed, acceptance of responsibilities, etc. - that if revealed in this review would give the story away. There is realness to this story that is unique - the characters all have such huge flaws that at times you just want to slap them and say "wake up, you're being stupid" - but isn't that what happens in real life?
There were moments when I had to stop reading too because the intensity could overwhelm me but persevering got to me to place of intense satisfaction when I was done reading. Suffice it to say, I’m glad I read this book. Highly recommend.