(9/18/2024)
I was not a fan of Goodbye, Vitamin, but I appreciated this book much more. It’s a multi-part story that covers three generations of a Chinese American family - mother, son and grandmother. It starts off weak but gets more interesting with each section.
At the start of the book, Lily is a young woman - just graduated from college, eking out a bare existence in NYC when she meets Matthew. Matthew is everything she’s not - blond, rich, with a great job. It’s an opposites attract story with the added factor of race thrown in. I wasn’t enthralled with this section, it had more of a feel of a romance novel, but it sets up the drama. I would have liked more meat about her relationship with her parents, the guilt, the disappointment on both sides.
The second part is about her son, Nick, a young man in search of himself. His parents are long divorced, his mom has moved across the country and he has no interaction with his dad. In defiance of genetic expectations, he looks exactly like his tall, blond, blue eyed father. His only friend convinces him to do a DNA test which sets the ball rolling for him to finally meet his father.
The third part is told by his grandmother and relates her years in China and her life after she comes to America. I appreciated that Khong was able to effortlessly weave the history of China under Mao without slowing the story. This section delves deep into Mai’s research into genetic science but was easy to understand and did a good job probing the ethics. This book has a lot to say about identity, ambition, wealth, the desire to make something of one’s self vs. the desire for a peaceful life. “She had never wanted to be remarkable. Her life was small and rich and entirely hers.” It also has so much to say about the parent-child relationship - the love, the anger, how a parent’s desire to make things better so often goes wrong.
I am not a fan of magic realism and this book did nothing to dissuade my opinion. I felt it added nothing to the story and the reason to include it went right over my head.