Book Club Discussion Questions for Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close by Jonathan Safran Foer

1. Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close was published in 2005; many reviewers thought of it as the first major 9/11 novel.  What does it mean for a book to be a "9/11 novel"?  Does our sense of what a 9/11 novel is change over time?  How do you think the reading of this book differs now than from when it was first published? Do you think it will be read differently ten or twenty or fifty years from now?
2. Did reading the book bring back memories of 9/11 for you? Do you remember how you felt in the days and weeks that followed that event? Do you remember what scared you? What you were grateful for?
3. Similarly, the book could be called a New York novel. In what ways is the book's sense of place integral to the story being told? In what ways is the setting universal?
4. Nine-year-old Oskar Schell is the central figure of the book.  Did you find him believable? Compelling? Did you empathize with him? Think about Oskar's literary precedents: Salinger's Holden Caulfield or Zooey Glass; Gunter Grass's Oskar of The Tin Drum; even Foer's own character of Alex in Everything is Illuminated.  Do you feel that Foer built on the tradition of the child narrator in Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close? Did he subvert it in any way?
5. When the book opens, Oskar is describing some of his "inventions."  What do Oskar's inventions have in common? Which of his inventions resonated the most with you?
6. Oskar writes letters to famous people—Stephen Hawking, Ringo Starr.  Why does he write these letters?  Oskar's letters to celebrities are only a few of the letters in the book.  Who else writes letters?  Do you consider this an epistolary novel? Why or why not?
7. On p. 99, we see an image of one of Oskar's "business cards," on which he defines himself with over a dozen titles.  On pp. 157–158, we are introduced to his neighbor's card catalog, by which Mr. Black describes everyone he's ever met using one word. Which method of defining a person is more accurate? Which is more revealing? How does Oskar change how he defines himself over the course of the book? What about the other characters' self-definitions?
8. What is the relationship in the book between writing and memory? How do characters use writing to remember things? How does writing obscure or impair or alter (perceived?) memory? How is writing manipulated—or manipulating?  (Think about the Grandmother writing her life story, and the Grandfather reading it.) What is the relationship between writing and reality?
9. The two central traumas in the book occur in the lives of Oskar Schell and his grandfather, Thomas Schell.  Does Foer encourage a kind of historical or moral equivalence between the two precipitating events—the attacks on 9/11 and the American bombing of Dresden?  What is the author saying about the individual's role in history?
10. The book is full of typographical oddities, some playful, some sad.  Some of      the many photographs in the book are part of Oskar's compilation of "Stuff that Happened to Me"—yet most of the images he collects there (like images of a shark attack) didn't happen to him.  What is Oskar's relationship to this material? How did it make you feel, as the reader, to encounter these images while you read the book?
11. Characters throughout the book conflate the physical and the emotional; many of the characters make material totems of their emotional states—from the ball of his grandmother's yarn that Oskar tugs to indicate that he is okay, to the bracelet that Oskar's grandmother's grandmother said she would measure her wrist twice for, to make sure she could wear this symbol of her love. Why do you feel the characters use physical embodiments of their feelings in this way? In Oskar's imagining of the last moments at the World Trade Center, he says, "I read that it was the paper that kept the towers burning. All of those notepads, and Xeroxes, and printed e-mails, and photographs of kids, and books, and dollar bills in wallets, and documents in files… all of them were fuel" (p.325). What is the author saying about the ways we express ourselves?
12. The book is filled with liminal areas, borders between opposites. Many of the characters of the book seem to struggle with uniting these opposites (between Yes and No, between Something and Nothing, between Manhattan and the Sixth Borough). What is Foer saying about these efforts to unite opposites? Is it a longing to connect, to make something divided whole? Or is he advocating a rejection of the idea of opposites?
13. Oskar's narrative is structured by his quest to find the lock that his key will open. What other purpose does the quest provide? What is the result of the quest?
14. What is the importance of last words? Do they mean more than other words? Think about the last words you've said to someone, or they've said to you. Do they feel more meaningful than other conversations?
15. What did you make of the novel's closing sequence, with the flip-book images? Did you find them moving? Trivializing? Helpful? Hopeful?

© 2011 Houghton Mifflin Harcourt

Discussion questions written by Erin Edmison.

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