Book Club Discussion Questions
Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
- In his college essay, George proclaims that "His goal in life was to be
authentic, no matter the consequences." Over the years of his life covered in
the novel, do you think he achieves this goal?
- How would you characterize George's relationship to Denis in the early
chapters of the novel? Do you think George's perception of Denis changed in
the years after Denis' death?
- How does George feel after he messes something up, or a conversation
doesn't go as planned? How does he cope with these feelings?
- George is always seeking out external validation—from his friends, from
Jenny, even from strangers. How does this validation (or lack thereof)
contribute to George's perception of himself?
- "George wondered if she was thinking about how little sex they had. They
rarely spoke about it, but he knew it bothered her." George often makes
claims about how those around him are feeling. Do you think George
accurately assesses the thoughts and feelings of his friends and family?
- In assessing George and Jenny's relationship, Cressida claims "It was obvious
they met when they were too young and got stuck in this holding pattern. I'm
sorry, George, but it was painful to watch. More for her sake." Do you agree
with this assessment of George and Jenny's relationship? Which aspects of it
worked well? Which aspects didn't?
- How does George and Cressida's relationship evolve over the course of the
novel?
- George is flawed—but then again, so is everyone. Do you think his positive
qualities outweigh his flaws? Overall, would you say he is a "good guy?"
- "Women liked George. He was fun to look at. Boyishly handsome. Jenny had
never quite grasped if he was indifferent or oblivious to this fact, but it didn't
seem to figure into his sense of himself." How aware of his looks do you think
George is? If not his looks, which aspects of his personality do you think
figure the most into George's sense of himself?
- What do you envision George's life looking like at age 45, or age 50? How
about Jenny's?
- Does George feel representative of his generation of young men? How would
he and his life be different had he been born twenty years earlier?
- What questions do you think George would ask about this novel, were he still
employed as a book club facilitator?
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