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Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout

Tell Me Everything

A Novel

by Elizabeth Strout
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  • Sep 10, 2024, 352 pages
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From Pulitzer Prize–winning author Elizabeth Strout comes a hopeful, healing novel about new friendships, old loves, and the very human desire to leave a mark on the world.

With her "extraordinary capacity for radical empathy" (The Boston Globe), remarkable insight into the human condition, and silences that contain multitudes, Elizabeth Strout returns to the town of Crosby, Maine, and to her beloved cast of characters—Lucy Barton, Olive Kitteridge, Bob Burgess, and more—as they deal with a shocking crime in their midst, fall in love and yet choose to be apart, and grapple with the question, as Lucy Barton puts it, "What does anyone's life mean?"

It's autumn in Maine, and the town lawyer Bob Burgess has become enmeshed in an unfolding murder investigation, defending a lonely, isolated man accused of killing his mother. He has also fallen into a deep and abiding friendship with the acclaimed writer Lucy Barton, who lives down the road in a house by the sea with her ex-husband, William. Together, Lucy and Bob go on walks and talk about their lives, their fears and regrets, and what might have been. Lucy, meanwhile, is finally introduced to the iconic Olive Kitteridge, now living in a retirement community on the edge of town. They spend afternoons together in Olive's apartment, telling each other stories. Stories about people they have known—"unrecorded lives," Olive calls them—reanimating them, and, in the process, imbuing their lives with meaning.

Brimming with empathy and pathos, Tell Me Everything is Elizabeth Strout operating at the height of her powers, illuminating the ways in which we our relationships keep us afloat. As Lucy says, "Love comes in so many different forms, but it is always love."

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This is the story of Bob Burgess, a tall, heavyset man who lives in the town of Crosby, Maine, and he is sixty-five years old at the time that we are speaking of him. Bob has a big heart, but he does not know that about himself; like many of us, he does not know himself as well as he assumes to, and he would never believe he had anything worthy in his life to document. But he does; we all do.

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Autumn comes early to Maine.

By the second or third week in August a person driving in a car might glance up and see in the distance the top of a tree that has become red. In Crosby, Maine, this year it happened first with the large maple tree by the church, and yet it was not even midway through the month of August. But the tree began to change color on its side facing east. This was curious to those who had lived there for years, they could not remember that being the first tree to change color. By the end of August, the entire tree was not red but a slightly orange yellowy thing, to be seen...

Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
  1. How does Elizabeth Strout use the character of Lucy Barton to explore the concept of empathy? What did you learn about your own capacity for radical empathy?
  2. How does the murder investigation affect the dynamics between the characters, particularly Bob Burgess and Lucy?
  3. Discuss the relationship between Lucy and her ex-husband, William. How does their past infl uence their current interactions? Have you ever been involved in a similarly complicated and shifting relationship, romantic or otherwise?
  4. How does Strout explore the theme of isolation in the novel? Which characters do you think feel the most isolated, and why? How does this theme show up in your own life?
  5. What role does the town lawyer, Bob Burgess, play...
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What is your book club reading in 2025?
...et Life of Sunflowers by Marta Molnar & Dana Marton The God of the Woods by Liz Moore The Bee Sting by Paul Murray Night Watch by Jayne Anne Phillips Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout Huck Finn by Mark Twain & James by Percival Everett
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What are you reading this week? (2024-10-31)
I am usually reading several books at once. This week I am finishing up The Book of Silver Linings by Nan Fischer for my book club and I had to start Tell Me Everything by Elizabeth Strout. I am also reading Beast of the North Woods on my kindle as a first impressions read. I love them all!
-Catherine_O_Callagha


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Those who've enjoyed this author's previous work will likely be delighted to see her main protagonists finally brought together in Crosby. Tell Me Everything can be read as a standalone novel; that said, those who haven't will almost certainly want to read the previous novels once they've encountered these marvelous characters. In typical Strout fashion, one can't necessarily say the novel has a firm narrative arc. While these varied plotlines sustain the forward momentum, they almost seem like an afterthought, a loose scaffolding on which to build something simultaneously simpler yet somehow grander...continued

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Boston Globe
A rich tapestry, intricately wrought yet effortlessly realized, both suspenseful and meditative ... Suffering and the enduring of it, the human impulse to solve and resolve confronting the fundamental unknowability of others and life's essential mystery, finding hope, love, and connection in improbable places: Strout's perpetual preoccupations are here explored with clear sighted rigor, emotional generosity, and bighearted joy.

Oprah Daily
Strout superfans will be thrilled to see the prickly protagonist of the author's Pulitzer Prize–winning Olive Kitteridge ... finally cross paths with the tender heroine of My Name Is Lucy Barton and Lucy by the Sea. But if you've never cracked the spine of a Strout novel before, don't sweat it—you'll feel like a Crosby, Maine, local by the end of the first chapter.

Portland Press-Herald
This book may be the epitome of literary fun ... Once again, Strout has managed to compress key histories from her earlier books into a few telling sentences, a miracle of distillation that opens this novel, and the Strout ecosystem, to new and old readers alike.

She Reads
Another deeply human and vibrant portrait of relationships, Tell Me Everything will bring the cozy and comforting story that fans have come to expect.

Town and Country
Life, thank goodness, goes on in Strout's remarkably-crafted world.

Los Angeles Times
Rejoice, Strout fans ... the author concerns herself and her characters with the art of narrative ... a reminder that our mistakes make up our most interesting tales.

Minneapolis Star Tribune
[Strout's] books are really about exploring characters so rich that they reveal more of themselves in book after book after book.

Real Simple
No need to have read Strout's other work to fall in love with this stand-alone story that explores the quiet impact we have on each other every day.

San Francisco Chronicle
A generous, compassionate novel about the human need for connection, understanding and love, and the damage that occurs when those things are denied.

Vulture
Strout covers the ghosts of marriages and the indignity of old age with her usual thoughtfulness.

The Guardian
Strout weaves a gossamer-light web of a community's hopes and setbacks.

Booklist (starred review)
Strout reminds us that storytelling can be powerful; that most people's lives go unrecorded; and that paying witness to everyday events is a gift. With tenderness, honesty, intimacy, and compassion, Strout uses her cunning powers of observation to draw readers beyond the mundane to the miraculous complexities where true friendship lies... . An absolute must-have.

Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
Strout's tenderness for her characters and her belief that love is the only force in human lives as powerful as our essential loneliness are as moving as ever. But this all seems like very well-plowed terrain. Strout's many fans will love this sweet, rambling tale. More critical readers may feel it's time for her to move on.

Publishers Weekly (starred review)
The latest from Pulitzer winner Strout (Olive Kitteridge) brings together characters from her previous novels for a masterly meditation on storytelling...Longtime fans and newcomers alike will relish this.

Reader Reviews

Cathryn Conroy

An Extraordinary and Brilliant Book About Life, Love, and Hope
Oh, I just want to hug this book. It is a book about nothing. And at the same time, it's a book about everything. It is a book about what people think and say and do. It is a book about how they treat one another in good times and bad. It is a ...   Read More
Bettie

Elizabeth Strout doesn't disappoint
As one might imagine from the title, this book feels like you’re having a conversation with a friend, sharing the latest stories of the “unrecorded” people in your community. Strout tells you early on that this is a book about Bob Burgess, and it is,...   Read More
Labmom55

An acquired taste
Elizabeth Strout is an acquired taste. She’s the queen of the interconnected, character rich stories. Many of her characters have shown up in multiple books and we, her readers, have gotten to watch them grow and age. Tell Me Everything has a ...   Read More

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The History of the Sin-Eater

Drawing from the 19th century of bread being served to a sin-eater who is sitting at a coffin surrounded by peopleIn Elizabeth Strout's novel Tell Me Everything, the author discusses the concept of the modern-day "sin-eater." In her interpretation, the term applies to a person who helps others unburden themselves of their guilt or emotional pain, allowing them to move forward with their lives. In England, Scotland, and Wales, however, "sin-eater" was an actual profession. In the 18th and 19th centuries, impoverished people could be hired to eat the sins of the recently deceased.

There are several theories as to how the practice arose. Some point to the use of a scapegoat as outlined in the Bible (Leviticus 16:8-10), where a goat was burdened with the sins of the Jewish people and sent off into the wilderness during the Yom Kippur (Day of Atonement) ...

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