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If You See Me, Don't Say Hi by Neel Patel

If You See Me, Don't Say Hi

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by Neel Patel

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  • Jul 2018, 224 pages
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Patel's stories - empathetic, provocative, twisting, and wryly funny - introduce a bold new literary voice, one that feels more timely than ever.

In eleven sharp, surprising stories, Neel Patel gives voice to our most deeply held stereotypes and then slowly undermines them. His characters, almost all of who are first-generation Indian Americans, subvert our expectations that they will sit quietly by. We meet two brothers caught in an elaborate web of envy and loathing; a young gay man who becomes involved with an older man whose secret he could never guess; three women who almost gleefully throw off the pleasant agreeability society asks of them; and, in the final pair of linked stories, a young couple struggling against the devastating force of community gossip.

If You See Me, Don't Say Hi examines the collisions of old world and new world, small town and big city, traditional beliefs (like arranged marriage) and modern rituals (like Facebook stalking).

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"Starred Review. Patel's deep sense of empathy - and infuriatingly relatable characters - shines throughout. A melancholic pleasure with a sense of humor." - Kirkus

"Wrenching…this is a perceptive, moving collection." - Publishers Weekly

"You won't want to miss…Patel turns his lens on Indian-Americans, addressing with depth and care subjects that are often overlooked or made into caricature: helicopter parents, conflicts between spouses, sibling rivalry, racism, sexual orientation, and identity." - Vanity Fair ("Summer Reading: This Season's Ultimate Fiction List")

"These stories have a sharp eye for the complexities of modern life, but Neel Patel writes with the wisdom and compassion of an old soul." - Celeste Ng, New York Times bestselling author of Little Fires Everywhere

"A joy to read, reminiscent of Jhumpa Lahiri and David Ebershoff." - Imbolo Mbue, New York Times bestselling author of Behold the Dreamers

"In stories that are moving, thoughtful, entertaining, and discomfiting all at once, Patel upends what we think the experience of Indians in America looks like. It's about time." - Rumaan Alam, author of Rich and Pretty

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Neel Patel

Neel Patel is a first-generation Indian American who grew up in Champaign, Illinois. His short stories have appeared in The Southampton Review, Indiana Review, The American Literary Review, Hyphen Magazine, and on Nerve.com. He currently lives in Los Angeles, where he is at work on a novel. If You See Me, Don't Say Hi is his debut.

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