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My Boy Will Die of Sorrow by Efrén C. Olivares

My Boy Will Die of Sorrow

A Memoir of Immigration From the Front Lines

by Efrén C. Olivares

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  • Jul 2022, 320 pages
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This deeply personal perspective from a human rights lawyer - whose work on the front lines of the fight against family separations in South Texas intertwines with his own story of immigrating to the United States at thirteen - reframes the United States' history as a nation of immigrants but also a nation against immigrants.

In the summer of 2018, Efrén C. Olivares found himself representing hundreds of immigrant families when Zero Tolerance separated thousands of children from their parents at the U.S.-Mexico border. Twenty-five years earlier, he had been separated from his own father for several years when he migrated to the U.S. to work. Their family was eventually reunited in Texas, where Efrén and his brother went to high school and learned a new language and culture.

By sharing these gripping family separation stories alongside his own, Olivares gives voice to immigrants who have been punished and silenced for seeking safety and opportunity. Through him we meet Mario and his daughter Oralia, Viviana and her son Sandro, Patricia and her son Alessandro, and many others. We see how the principles that ostensibly bind the U.S. together fall apart at its borders.

My Boy Will Die of Sorrow reflects on the immigrant experience then and now, on what separations do to families, and how the act of separation itself adds another layer to the immigrant identity. Our concern for fellow human beings who live at the margins of our society—at the border, literally and figuratively—is shaped by how we view ourselves in relation both to our fellow citizens and to immigrants. He discusses not only law and immigration policy in accessible terms, but also makes the case for how this hostility is nothing new: children were put in cages when coming through Ellis Island, and Japanese Americans were forcibly separated from their families and interned during WWII. By examining his personal story and the stories of the families he represents side by side, Olivares meaningfully engages readers with their assumptions about what nationhood means in America and challenges us to question our own empathy and compassion.

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"In this powerful debut, human rights lawyer Olivares braids reflections on growing up as a Mexican immigrant with a stirring account of his experience representing immigrant parents separated from their children as a result of the Trump administration's 'zero-tolerance' policy in 2018... This urgent look at an ongoing crisis galvanizes and informs in equal measure." - Publishers Weekly

"A powerful mix of human rights memoir and examination of America's flawed immigration policies." - Kirkus Reviews

"Readers will appreciate this memoir as a moving firsthand account but also as a call to action to ensure that human rights prevail at America's borders." - Library Journal

"My Boy Will Die of Sorrow is a visceral, behind the scenes account of the human impacts of our immigration system, from the inner machinations at the height of the family separation crisis to the cruelties faced by immigrants and their families every single day. At a time where harrowing immigration headlines dominate our news, this book is an intimate invitation to join Olivares through his firsthand experience as an immigrant and an advocate on the frontlines. It's an invitation every American should be honored to receive, and those who accompany him on this journey will undoubtedly walk away better for it." - Kerry Kennedy, President of Robert F. Kennedy Human Rights

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Reflects on the immigrant experience then and now, on the impact of separation on families, and how the act of separation itself adds another layer to immigration status. The author discusses the law and immigration policy in easy-to-understand language, and makes the case that this is nothing new. This is the daily cruelty that most migrants and their families face. For example, children were kept in cages as they passed through Ellis Island, and Japanese Americans were forcibly separated from their families and interned during World War II. For example, children were kept in cages as they passed through Ellis Island, and Japanese Americans were forcibly separated from their families and interned during World War II. He combines his and others' immigration stories with the realities of law and policy. Olivares intentionally lets readers through their assumptions about what nationhood means in America, and makes us question our own empathy and compassion. He exposes the inhumane laws and arguments behind policy, bureaucracy and decision-making.

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Efrén C. Olivares is the Deputy Legal Director of the Immigrant Justice Project at Southern Poverty Law Center. He was the lead lawyer in a successful landmark petition to the Inter-American Commission on Human Rights on behalf of families separated under the Zero Tolerance policy. He previously directed the Racial and Economic Justice Program at the Texas Civil Rights Project. His writings on immigration policy have also been published by the New York Times, USA Today, and Newsweek, and he has testified before Congress and at briefings on Capitol Hill about immigration and border policies. Part of his work representing separated families was featured in the CBS News Documentary The Faces of Family Separation, released in October 2019. He has also been interviewed as an expert attorney on immigrants' rights issues on numerous TV and radio shows, and was featured in John Legend's "Can't Just Preach" series.

Olivares was the first member of his family to attend college. He is a graduate of the University of Pennsylvania and Yale Law School.

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