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Relinquished by Gretchen Sisson

Relinquished

The Politics of Adoption and the Privilege of American Motherhood

by Gretchen Sisson

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  • Feb 2024, 320 pages
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A powerful decade-long study of adoption in the age of Roe, revealing the grief of the American mothers for whom the choice to parent was never real.

Adoption has always been viewed as a beloved institution for building families, as well as a mutually agreeable common ground in the abortion debate, but little attention has been paid to the lives of mothers who relinquish infants for private adoption. Relinquished reveals adoption to be a path of constrained choice for those for whom abortion is inaccessible, or for whom parenthood is untenable. The stories of relinquishing mothers are stories about our country's refusal to care for families at the most basic level, and to instead embrace an individual, private solution to a large-scale, social problem.

With the recent decision in Dobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization revoking abortion protections, we are in a political moment in which adoption is, increasingly, being revealed as an institution devoted to separating families and policing parenthood under the guise of feel-good family-building. Rooted in a long-term study, Relinquished is an analysis of hundreds of in-depth interviews with American mothers who placed their children for domestic adoption. The voices of these women are powerful and heartrending; they deserve to be heard.

Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
  1. What did you believe about adoption before reading Relinquished? Have your beliefs or opinions changed since reading the book?
  2. Do you have any personal experiences with adoption, as an adoptee, and adoptive family members, or a relinquishing family member? If so, did you feel your experience was reflected in the stories shared here?
  3. Which of the mothers' stories did you find most compelling? For which mothers did you feel the most sympathy and compassion? Did you ever feel angry, frustrated, or uncomfortable with the mother sharing her story?
  4. The subtitle of the book references "the privilege of motherhood." Who do you think has the privilege of being a mother in American society today? Should parenthood be a ...
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"Sociologist Sisson's comprehensive and harrowing debut draws on a decade of interviews and archival research to argue that America's current discourse around adoption belies its insidious history of targeting vulnerable mothers and children....Throughout, Sisson foregrounds the stories of mothers who gave up their children for adoption, juxtaposing their personal monologues with sociological and historical research that highlights broader patterns in their testimonies. The result is a devastating and urgent condemnation of America's adoption industry." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"Provocative, in-depth, and scholarly. For readers interested in the history of adoption." —Library Journal

"Impressively reported…[Sisson] uses her deep well of knowledge to make the case that adoption is no solution for Americans' reduced access to abortion." ―San Francisco Chronicle

"Contributes to our national understanding of what reproductive justice really means." —Gloria Steinem

"A compelling read, an important, thought-provoking book." —Arlie Hochschild, sociologist and author of Strangers In Their Own Land

"Meticulously and empathetically researched. The stories of these women are gripping, intimate, and powerful." —Anna Malaika Tubbs, sociologist and author of The Three Mothers

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Gretchen Sisson

Gretchen Sisson, Ph.D., is a qualitative sociologist studying abortion and adoption at Advancing New Standards in Reproductive Health (ANSIRH) in the Department of Obstetrics, Gynecology, and Reproductive Sciences at University of California, San Francisco. Her research was cited in the Supreme Court's dissent in Dobbs v. Jackson Women's Health Organization and has been covered in the Washington Post, The Nation, All Things Considered and Consider This, New York Magazine, VOX, and other outlets.

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