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We Loved It All by Lydia Millet

We Loved It All

A Memory of Life

by Lydia Millet

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  • Apr 2024, 272 pages
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This lucent anti-memoir from celebrated novelist Lydia Millet explores the pain and joy of being a parent, child, and human at a moment when the richness of the planet's life is deeply threatened.

Across more than a dozen acclaimed works of fiction, readers have become intimate with Lydia Millet's distinctive voice and sly wit. We Loved It All, her first nonfiction book, combines the precision of fact with the power of narrative to evoke our enmeshment with the more-than-human world.

Emerging from Millet's quarter century of wildlife and climate advocacy, We Loved It All marries scenes from her life with moments of nearness to "the others"— the animals and plants with whom we share the earth. Accounts of fears and failures, jobs and friendships, childhood and motherhood are interspersed with exquisite accounts of nonhumans and arresting meditations on the power of story to shape the future.

Seeking to understand why we immerse ourselves in the domestic and immediate, turning away from more sweeping views, she examines how grand cultural myths can deny our longing for the company of nature and deprive us of its charisma and inspiration. In a thrilling distillation of experience and emotion, she evinces the familiar sense of feeling both well-meaning and powerless—a creature subject to forces that are baffling in their immensity. The fear and grief of extinction and climate change, Millet suggests, are forms of love that might be turned to resistance.

We Loved It All shimmers with curiosity and laconic humor yet addresses with reverence the most urgent crises of our day. An incantatory, bewitching devotional to the vast and precious bestiary of the earth, it asks that we extend to other living beings the protection they deserve—the simple grace of continued existence.

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"[A] profoundly affecting meditation on what it means to live through climate change...In scintillating prose, Millet makes a passionate case that humans must own up to their responsibilities to each other and the natural world...Mournful and piercingly beautiful, this will stick with readers long after they finish the last page." ―Publishers Weekly (starred review)

"[T]he author offers a well-written, poignant lament for the greater animal kingdom to which we owe not just our survival as a species but our joy and companionship...A philosophically tinted testament to the challenge of loving animals in an epoch defined by extinction." ―Kirkus Reviews

"Millet's awe of nature is catching, even as it lives alongside the grief of our everyday destructions." ― Eliza Smith, Literary Hub

"In turns heartbreaking and inspiring, We Loved It All reminds us to hold every being dear at a time when we all need love more than ever." ― Amy Brady, Literary Hub

"We have all been the beneficiary of Lydia Millet's eloquence and imagination through fiction. But now she gives us a different kind of story. A story of stunning attention, truths, and urgency, We Loved It All is an ode to the creatures we live among: finned, feathered, furred, scaled, and rooted…This is a rigorous, evocative, brilliant bow to life, even as the world burns. Please read this transformative anti-memoir that shows us a way forward." ―Terry Tempest Williams, author of Erosion: Essays of Undoing

"Lydia Millet's We Loved It All is at once lyrical and densely packed, intimate and all-encompassing. It beautifully captures the current moment, in all its terrors and possibilities." ― Elizabeth Kolbert, author of The Sixth Extinction

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Lydia Millet Author Biography

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Lydia Millet is the author of A Children's Bible, a finalist for the National Book Award and a New York Times Top Ten book of the Year. Her first work of short fiction, Love in Infant Monkeys, was a finalist for the Pulitzer Prize in 2010; her second, Fight No More (2018), won an American Academy of Arts and Sciences short fiction award. Ativists is her third work of short fiction. She lives outside Tucson, Arizona.

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