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Take My Name But Say It Slow by Thomas Dai

Take My Name But Say It Slow

Essays

by Thomas Dai

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  • Jan 21, 2025, 288 pages
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A luminous memoir-in-essays exploring place, identity, and what it means to grow up queer and Asian in the American South.

Thomas Dai has never gone by his Chinese name, Nuocheng, fashioned from the Knoxville (Chinese: Nuokeshiweier) of his childhood and the Chengdu his mother called home. Seen another way, Nuocheng also contains the cheng of Chenggong: success. In one breath, his name speaks of a hometown, a geography, a half-baked promise to succeed. For Dai, every name is like a map, and every map can define identity.

In Take My Name but Say It Slow, Dai writes of a river that runs only in the mind and a queer map housed on the internet; of love carved on the rocks of Taipei and Arizona; of pounding the racetrack in Wenzhou, watching his grandfather fade from the world. He recounts a relationship that would literally go the distance from the American Southwest to China and back again, and a road trip chasing the memory of Nabokov, the writer and lepidopterist. As he reflects on the paths his parents took to build a life in America, he also asks what it means to "return" to a place he never felt he could claim as his own.

Incisive and gorgeously written, Take My Name but Say It Slow offers a fresh perspective on placelessness, yearning, and belonging, and introduces a sparkling new literary talent.

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"This meditative debut collection from Dai, a creative writing professor at the University of Idaho, explores the intersection of geography, identity, and sexuality...Touching and keenly observed, this packs a punch." —Publishers Weekly

"Dai's prose oscillates between clarity and dense, stylized writing. At its best, it offers insightful reflections on the immigrant experience and queer identity. However, the weight of its intellectual indulgences sometimes threatens to overshadow the personal narrative. The work will likely resonate with readers drawn to lush prose and literary experimentation, but it may leave others yearning for more grounded, accessible storytelling. Despite occasional opacity, this noteworthy debut showcases a unique voice in contemporary memoir." —Kirkus Reviews

"I read Take My Name but Say It Slow in awe of its exhilarating intelligence, its wit, and its deft inquiry into the fundamental human longing to be of the earth. Brilliance has never felt so inviting, animating." ―Paul Lisicky, author of Later: My Life at the Edge of the World

"The real journey of the book is the interior one, the intellectual and, dare I say, spiritual one happening all the time as we move through time and space and culture and queerness and cartography and memory and history and science and so much more... . If I could take only one book on my next journey it would be this one." ―Ander Monson, author of Predator

"By turns erudite and tender, melancholy and joyous... . Thomas Dai finds a way to beautifully probe, on each page, questions of wanderlust and desire, memory and nostalgia, landscape and belonging. A bold, tender, radiant debut." ―Francisco Cantú, author of The Line Becomes a River

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Thomas Dai

Thomas Dai teaches creative writing at the University of Idaho. He holds an MFA in creative nonfiction from the University of Arizona and a PhD in American studies from Brown University.

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