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A Memoir
by Erika J. Simpson
From "a writer who's absolutely going places" (Roxane Gay), a remarkable, inventive debut memoir about a mother-daughter relationship across cycles of poverty, separation, and illness, exploring how we forge identity in the face of imminent loss.
Growing up, Erika Simpson's mother loomed large, almost biblical in her life. A daughter of sharecroppers, middle child of ten, her origin story served as a Genesis. Her departure from home and a cheating husband, pursuing higher education along the way a kind of Exodus. Her rules for survival, often repeated like the Ten Commandments, guided Erika's own journey into adulthood. And the most important rule? Throughout her life, Sallie Carol preached the power of a testimony—which often proved useful in talking her way out of a bind with bill collectors.
But where does a mother's story end and a daughter's begin? In this brave, illuminating memoir, Erika offers a joint recollection of their lives as they navigate the realities of destitution often left undiscussed. Her mother's uncanny ability to endure Job-like trials and manifest New Testament–style miracles made her seem invincible. But while our parents may start out as gods in our lives, through her mother's final months and fifth battle with cancer, Erika captures the moment you realize they are just people.
This gorgeously rendered story of a mother's life through her daughter's eyes weaves together a dual timeline, pulling inspiration from both scripture and pop culture as Erika moves through grief to a place of clarity where she can see who she is without her mom—and because of her.
"A daughter's long-distance deathwatch animated Simpson's bewitching debut ... Simpson enlivens the often bleak proceedings with innovative narrative techniques ... Readers will be wowed." —Publishers Weekly (starred review)
"A debut memoir by the supremely talented Erika J. Simpson is an eloquent reminder that there are many complicated dimensions of mother-daughter relationships, some tender, some funny, some fraught with pain. Simpson urgently invites the reader to follow daughter and mother from Simpson's turbulent childhood in Atlanta, to a coming of age that both separates and further entangles them and finally to the inevitable, heartrending conclusion of their relationship...This Is Your Mother honor[s] what became of their eternal, unbreakable bond." —BookPage (starred review)
"A searingly honest book about surviving America at the thorny intersection of race, class, and gender ... As it examines entangled family dynamics rooted in faith and loyalty, this poignant memoir reveals the life-long impact, for good and for ill, of the ever-powerful mother-daughter bond." —Kirkus Reviews
"Mother as archive, mother as lesson, mother as love, mother as a set of rules spoken and unspoken—Erika J. Simpson's singular debut memoir, This Is Your Mother, is a powerful story of how to survive America, and how to survive what our parents teach us about themselves and ourselves, too." —Alexander Chee, author of How to Write an Autobiographical Novel
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Erika J. Simpson is a Southern girl living in Denver, Colorado, with her partner and their black cat. She holds an MFA in creative writing from the University of Kentucky and is the recipient of the 2021 MFA Award in Nonfiction. Her essay "If You Ever Find Yourself" was published in Roxane Gay's The Audacity and featured in Best American Essays 2022, edited by Alexander Chee. This Is Your Mother is her debut memoir, and she also writes fiction for the page and screen.
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