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My Accidental Jihad by Krista Bremer

My Accidental Jihad

by Krista Bremer

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  • Apr 2014, 304 pages
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Fifteen years ago, Krista Bremer would not have been able to imagine her life today: married to a Libyan-born Muslim, raising two children with Arabic names in the American South. Nor could she have imagined the prejudice she would encounter or the profound ways her marriage would change her perception of the world.

But on a running trail in North Carolina, she met Ismail. He was passionate and sincere - and he loved adventure as much as she did. From acquaintances to lovers to a couple facing an unexpected pregnancy, this is the story of two people - a middle-class American raised in California and a Muslim raised by illiterate parents in an impoverished Libyan fishing village - who made a commitment to each other without forsaking their own identities.

It is the story of a bicultural marriage - and aren't all marriages bicultural? In any marriage, we might discover that our mate is foreign to us, with very different language, memories, and assumptions about home and family. How we respond to difference shapes our world.

Profoundly moving and often funny, this meditation on tolerance explores what it means to open our hearts to another culture and to embrace our own. It is Krista Bremer's unexpected struggle to reach beyond herself, her accidental Jihad.

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"Bremer's particular story strikingly highlights the (usually more mundane) cultural clashes and compromises inherent to every marriage or long-term relationship." - Publishers Weekly

"The book's title refers not to her falling in love with a Muslim but her 'own accidental jihad', forcing me to wrestle with my intolerance and self-absorption. Readers with similar mind-sets will want to follow Bremer's 'love story'." - Booklist

"Readers of memoir will welcome this love story about patience and kindness and learning the importance of putting culture first." - Library Journal

"A sweet and rewarding journey of a book." - Kirkus

"My Accidental Jihad is a bold piece of writing (and thinking) by an incredibly brave woman." - Elizabeth Gilbert, author of The Signature of All Things and Eat, Pray, Love

"Utterly absorbing... A beautiful book." - Cheryl Strayed, author of Wild

"Lucid, heartfelt and profoundly humane, My Accidental Jihad navigates the boundaries of religion and politics to arrive at the universal experience of love." - G. Willow Wilson, author of Alif the Unseen

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Betty T.

Intercultural Marriage Struggles
Having traveled a lot in the Middle East, I enjoy books related to the region. In this memoir, Krisat Bremer actually had two cultures to adapt to -- her husband's Muslim culture and the US Southern culture. Having lived in California for most of my life and then moving to middle Georgia I could certainly relate. Bremer is very open about her struggles with the clashes between her culture and that of her husband. Krista and Ismail's love got them through some really tough times. At times though I felt she was taking on all the blame for the difficult times. lsmail is indeed patient and understanding, but not perfect. His life did seem to be an example of true Islam. Both Krista and Ismail work to remain open-minded. Her description of the bargaining that goes on in his culture was so realistic. This was something I had difficulty learning in my travels. I just do not bargain well. . His thriftiness and her wastefulness were another problem they struggled with. I found her description of the differences in acceptance of body image is so true! In the US a woman must be thin to be considered attractive. Yet in the Muslim culture a woman with "some meat on her bones" is found attractive. Her description of Southern summers is also perfect. It is just how I felt when I first moved to the South -- still feel that way.

Having similar impressions and experiences in my travels made me trust the areas she described that I am not familiar with. It is a very well written memoir, easy to read. For those who know little about the Muslim culture and want to know more, I highly recommend this book.

I received an advance copy from the publisher via LibraryThing.

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Krista Bremer

Krista Bremer is the associate publisher of The Sun magazine and the recipient of a Rona Jaffe Foundation award. Her essay on which this book is based, "My Accidental Jihad," received a Pushcart Prize. Her essays have been published in O: The Oprah Magazine, More magazine, and The Sun, and she's been featured on NPR and in the PBS series Arab American Stories. Her website is www.kristabremer.com.

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