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Summary and Reviews of Leaving by Roxana Robinson

Leaving by Roxana Robinson

Leaving

A Novel

by Roxana Robinson
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  • Feb 13, 2024, 344 pages
  • Paperback:
  • Mar 2025, 352 pages
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Book Summary

What risks would you be willing to take to fall in love again?

One of Oprah Daily's Most Anticipated Books of 2024

"I never thought I'd see you here," Sarah says. Then she adds, "But I never thought I'd see you anywhere."

Sarah and Warren's college love story ended in a single moment. Decades later, when a chance meeting brings them together, a passion ignites—threatening the foundations of the lives they've built apart. Since they parted in college, each has married, raised a family, and made a career. When they meet again, Sarah is divorced and living outside New York, while Warren is still married and living in Boston.

Seeing Warren sparks an awakening in Sarah, who feels emotionally alive for the first time in decades. Still, she hesitates to reclaim a chance at love after her painful divorce and years of framing her life around her children and her work. Warren has no such reservations: he wants to leave his marriage but can't predict how his wife and daughter will react. As their affair intensifies, Sarah and Warren must confront the moral responsibilities of their love for their families and each other.

Leaving charts a passage through loyalty and desire as it builds to a shattering conclusion. In her boldest and most powerful work to date, Roxana Robinson demonstrates her "trademark gifts as an intelligent, sensitive analyst of family life" (Wendy Smith, Chicago Tribune) in an engrossing exploration of the vows we make to one another, the tensile relationships between parents and their children, and what we owe to others and ourselves.

Excerpt from Leaving

Page 3-4

"I never thought I'd see you here," Sarah says. Then she adds, "But I never thought I'd see you anywhere."

They're at the opera house, on the second floor, near the head of the grand staircase. He's facing her, leaning his hips against the railing, hands set lightly on either side. Beyond him, in the high open space of the atrium, hang the glittering crystal chandeliers, frozen starbursts. Below, people move up and down the broad red-carpeted staircase, hurrying but stately. They are mostly over fifty, this is the second intermission, and there is only so much time left to meet someone, eat something, drink something, void, before the caped ushers begin playing their little xylophones, the bright tuneless melodies announcing the last act.

She had known him at once. His younger face is still visible within this older one, though this one is creased now, hollowed here, fuller there. The same square shape, same bright brown eyes and wide brow. The same thick ...

Please be aware that this discussion guide will contain spoilers!
  1. Sarah and Warren rekindle their relationship at the Opera. Do you have a similar experience where you've run into someone unexpected at a place you frequent? How did that make you feel?
  2. After the opera, when Sarah and Warren are at dinner, they witness a fight with another family. The two talk about whether the father should pick sides or not. How do you think the conflict makes Sarah and Warren feel? What does this say about Sarah and Warren?
  3. What do you think about Sarah and Warren's affair? Are they making the right decision?
  4. The first 100 pages really focus on Sarah's character, her relationships with her kids, and her life. What do you think of Sarah? How do you feel about her? Is she likable? Is she not ...
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Several decades after the abrupt end of an intense affair in young adulthood, a chance encounter re-ignites the connection between a married man and a long-divorced woman (Teresa R). Difficult questions come into play in this masterfully written story: What exactly is honor and where is the boundary for morality? What binds us to our marital oaths, our partners, our children? What do we owe ourselves? (Susan P). Robinson's ability to draw the reader into the lives of her protagonists is achieved through pitch-perfect dialogue and exquisite description (Molly O). The author gives the story a sensuous finesse; she vividly describes the notorious baggage that can come with obtaining your heart's desires and does it without dropping into cliche (Betsey V)...continued

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People Magazine
Leaving navigates the chasm between responsibility and desire when two long-lost lovers reconnect. This beautiful book will sweep you away

Amity Gaige, New York Times
This lithe novel engrosses. Robinson's storytelling is classic, page after page of swiftly moving scenes and writing as precise as rows of tilled earth. Robinson proves that writers can still evoke the silences and renunciations that thwart desire, and that stars still cross. The ending is a bombshell, eminently discussable.

Joan Frank , Washington Post
A study of the complex joy and pain of late-life love, Leaving is a tour de force and arguably Robinson's finest work yet. Robinson's writing—unfailingly clear-eyed, packed with psychological insights—compels readers to care passionately about the characaters. Leaving stands as a wondrous feat, and its final impact shatters.

Oprah Daily
An impassioned portrayal of desire and loyalty, of romantic love and family duty, and an exploration into what we owe to each other—and to ourselves.

Heller McAlpin , NPR
An operatic tragedy about passion and honor…poised to fuel many a book group discussion.

Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
Elegantly structured and written, shimmering with feeling and truth. A triumph.

Publishers Weekly (starred review)
Robinson writes skillfully and sensitively about Sarah's feeling for her children and grandchildren, and about her daughter's agony and terror of childbirth, but Warren, infuriatingly weak and curiously inarticulate in the face of Kat's haranguing, seems no more than a vehicle for Robinson's story. This bleak outing offers glimmers of the author's past greatness but doesn't reach the same heights.

Author Blurb Amy Bloom, author of In Love
Leaving is a passionate portrait of marriages, of parenthood (early and late), and the tectonic shifts of family life. Roxana Robinson brings her wit, her beautiful sentences, and her compassionate clarity to this book about the price of love and the enduring need for it.

Author Blurb Geraldine Brooks, author of Horse
What does love demand of us, and who must pay the price? Leaving is a searing interrogation of honor and passion. It dissects the hidden cost of the choices we make, and the consequences with which we must endeavor to live.

Author Blurb Gish Jen, author of The Resisters
If to the combustible elements of passion, honor, love, and art, you add the complexities of modern parenting, you get the conflagration that is Leaving. Compelling, heart-stopping, and all too believable, this is a marvelous read.

Reader Reviews

JoreneJ

It's never too late...but
This novel attracted me because it involves "late in life lovers". One might assume that a late in life affair would be with fewer obstacles- most mature people have grownup children and fewer responsibilities; their careers may be behind them.. But ...   Read More
Betsy R. (Gig Harbor, WA)

Leaving is Amazing
This book! I loved it. It has it all-affairs, marriage drama, adult children difficulties-many issues some of us have faced later on in life. Warren and Sarah meet by chance twenty-plus years after their college break-up and find that their ...   Read More
Dorothy L. (Manalapan, NJ)

Leaving and Loss
I liked this book and thought it was well constructed. The characters were multidimensional and the two protagonists were transformed as the plot evolved in different stages: reunion, reconnection, and ultimately loss. Love is different when you are ...   Read More
Kathleen Q. (Quincy, MA)

The Price of Following your Head or Your Heart
LEAVING is an example of dichotomy of following your heart or your head when it comes to a complex relationship that started in the past and was forgotten until a chance interaction later in life. Also entwined is extreme loyalty and honor, but only ...   Read More

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Puccini's Opera Tosca

1899 Tosca poster depicting woman with cross in hand, bent over presumably dead man, against gold and red background Roxana Robinson's novel Leaving begins with the protagonists meeting at the Metropolitan Opera House during a production of Tosca. This opera is a tragedy, set in Rome in 1800, during the Napoleonic Wars.

The drama centers around three main characters: Mario Cavaradossi, a painter and Napoleon supporter; Baron Vitellio Scarpia, the corrupt head of police; and Floria Tosca, a beautiful opera singer. Tosca and Cavaradossi are lovers but the lascivious Scarpia wants to add Tosca to his long list of conquests. He arrests Cavaradossi on suspicion of hiding an escaped political prisoner and has him tortured in Tosca's hearing, ultimately sentencing him to death. Tosca pleads for Cavaradossi's life, which Scarpia pretends he'll grant in ...

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